I was 19 when I began to study for my Hons degree at St. Xaviers College and found that I had a ‘study mate’, an external student, doing a B.Ed(Hons) degree. She was 40. As full time kindy teacher she was unable to attend lectures. I was given the job to ‘lecturer’ her in the evenings. We spent most evenings in the front verandah going through my copious hand written notes (oh, for a laptop!). Three years later we both graduated. That lady was Phyllis Pearson…my mum.
To get some idea of her tenacity and determination I will take you back to her privileged childhood. Mum was the eldest of seven girls. Well educated and possibly spoilt. She met my dad (Alfred) when she 18 and was married at 19. I was born a year later on their first wedding anniversary. Dad worked for the railways in an administration capacity whilst mum was a housewife. We lived in Dinapore.
When the war came mum worked as a cipher operator with the army in Khagaul. I was about six when I contracted typhoid and ran dangerously high fevers. The doctors said I was unlikely to survive without Penicillin (unavailable for civilians). Mum went to the highest military authority and begged for the drug. Her persistence paid off. I lived. To bring my fever down, I was placed on a waterproof rubber sheet covered in ice – also in very short supply. Mum would jump on her bike and cycle to homes to get ice from those few who had refrigerators. She would fill up her basket and pedal furiously back to the hospital before it melted. She did this many times each day until my fever was under control. It was this tenacity and determination that would later make mum a legend in her lifetime.
The war ended and dad was transferred to Calcutta. Mum was a typical housewife surrounded by servants. We witnessed the Great Calcutta Killings and found city life fraught with problems but we settled. It was just before the 1950s when mum got the bug to become a school teacher. She was allowed to have a go as an untrained teacher in the Pratt Memorial nursery in 1948. She was befriended by Basil Manuel, our local Anglican parish priest. He was secretly in love with her but nothing would come of this until some 40 years later.
Basil encouraged mum to approach the Bishop and get a scholarship to go to England and do her teacher’s training certificate. She got her scholarship (tuition only) and went to the Derby Teachers Training College for two years. And so began her career. And so also began her desire to become a university graduate finishing with a Masters. And this is how mum and I sat together and graduated with degrees.
In 1950 she sailed to England taking my sister Penny who was about seven with her. I was horrified that I was left behind. I decided then that I was unwanted and my sister was the favourite. I am ashamed to say that I carried this hatred in me far too long.
Dad took on bachelorhood. I was in St James School and very soon the ‘goondah element’ was nurtured by resentment and abandonment. Dad worked long hours and even took in lodgers because half his salary was destined to support mum in England for the next two years. I hated my mum but missed her unendingly.
Meanwhile mum too was in for a shock. The college had organized digs for her with a family in Derby. She was greeted by her landlady with these words…’I didn’t know you were coloured!’ Rationing in England was a way of life. You spent half your shopping time in queues clutching ration coupons to exchange for miniscule amounts of butter, sugar, milk, eggs, meat (very rare) and bread. And the ‘whites’ often pushed past the ‘coloureds’ to assert their superiority. There was no turning back. Two years later she completed her training and returned leaving behind a very tearful landlady who now adored her.
On her return the new enthusiastic English trained teacher rediscovered her Anglo-Indian roots that fell well below her new ‘blighty’ standards. Dad was still the humble hardworking bloke she left behind. Mother was now a whirling dervish. High standards with a touch of arrogance was not of our liking. Penny was a pompous 9-year old pommy upstart and I was still the grubby unwashed ‘chokra’! Mother studied my school reports and concluded that I was a dunce. I had failed every subject. My father was given a lecture for his unsupervised failures and mother took charge…of everything.
There was only one course of action – boarding school. The Himalayas were ruled out and the Deccan Plateau was chosen – Bishop Cottons in Bangalore. And so began the best years of my life. I was about 15 when I bravely undertook the long train trip from Calcutta to Bangalore via Madras. Dad was a senior officer and I travelled in a first class air-conditioned coupe. My first day in school with my posh new Sherwood Forest green blazer, white shirt, matching green tie and school cap was about to be marred. I stood proudly to attention at assembly as our names were called. When my name – Beverley Pearson- was called out there was a hushed silence: almost every head turned to look in my direction. Oh my god what was a girl doing in this boys’ school. Later I learned that the captain of the girl’s school was a Beverley Wilson.
My maternal grandmother Nina (nee Griffiths) also studied at Pratt Memorial School. Neither I or my mother realized that she would become the principal of the school where her mum is listed on the Honours Board for 1913. Coincidences continued when mum discovered that the Clewer Sisters (who also ran St. Michael’s school in Darjeeling where she was educated) were listed as earlier principals of the Pratt Memorial on a marble tablet in the school hall. Later Penny was also educated in this school. Penny went on to become a graduate teacher and also taught at the Pratt for many years
Not long after mum returned from England she was approached by Austin D’Souza (Inspector of Anglo-Indian Schools) and Loreto House to set up a Teacher’s Training College in Middleton Row. She spent the best part of the next 10 years training future teachers for our Anglo-Indian Schools. Mum was then offered principal ship of St. Thomas’ Day School. Her vision, drive and vocation turned the school from primary to full high school certificate level. Her next move was almost inevitable…Pratt Memorial School. Her association with the Pratt now goes back 70 years beginning with her mother.
Mum had big shoes to fill. Miss Lawrence and Mrs Bobb preceded her. In mum’s eyes the head of a school was not the boss. It was being a leader with a head and a heart. Indivisible. People mattered. Over the years mum’s concern with deprived girls took precedence. She would go to great lengths to track down vulnerable girls and almost ‘steal’ them away from parents who neglected them. She would admit them as boarders and educated them free of all fees. These Anglo-Indian girls found a champion in mum. She was unashamedly biased. She fought many a battle with her governing board who felt that her generosity was going too far. Mother was a formidable opponent. Charming, beguiling, flirtatious but very focused and determined.
I remember an incident when she was told of a very poor Anglo-Indian family living in a godown was negotiating the ‘sale’ of their nine-year old daughter to a local butcher. Mum was horrified and within the hour she was on their door step and the little girl was ‘removed’ from their care and admitted as boarder to the Pratt. This girl was eventually adopted out as a teenager to an Anglo-Indian family and today she lives in London with three of her own children. This I believe is one of many such stories.
Mother Teresa’s Ashram was situated directly opposite the Pratt and mum was a great friend to Mother Teresa. She could never say no to her. No deprived child was ever denied an education.
The Pratt had an excellent reputation as an educational institution – a highly desirable place to educate daughters. Many a privileged Indian family had their daughters in this school and their fathers held top positions in Customs, Police, the Courts, Banks, Universities, Transport, Hospitals and so forth. One phone call to a high ranking father from Mrs Pearson guaranteed support or funds. When the Pratt and St James School got together to run the annual Church Education League fete everything on the stalls, prizes and catering was donated. The CEL fete was legendary and it always ended on an open-air jam session where the families got to socialize and jam session the evening away. Many a romance and liaisons were forged. I know. I met my wife at one such function.
Whilst doing research on our ancestry I discovered that mum was a (nee) Haslop but mum’s dad birth certificate said he was Albert Victor von Zulesdorf (originated from Bavaria). He met Nina Griffiths whose family came out from Liverpool, England. So where did the Haslop bit come from? During the First World war the British in India interned anyone with a German name. Grandad was interned for about six months and as soon as he was released he promptly changed his name by deed poll to Haslop.
During my mother’s time as an educator she never stopped being involved with all aspects of teaching and governing. She was the President of the Teachers Centre St James Womens’ Fellowship and the Association of All-India Anglo-Indian schools. She was the vice president of the Church Education League and the Governor of St. Thomas’ Kidderpore, St Pauls’ Mission Church and St. Thomas’ Church School. She was also a member of the governing boards of Mt Herman Training College, St Thomas’ Day School and Laeticia’s School.
If that wasn’t enough she took on the Hony Secretary role of The Bruce Institution, European Schools Improvement Association, St James’ Pastoral Committee and the Calcutta Diocesan Board of Education. Wait there’s more. She was the Convener for the Indian School Certificate and the Indian Certificate of Secondary Education. And somewhere along this line she was a managing committee member of St Josephs’ College and the Welland-Gouldsmith. And finally she was an executive committee member of the Diocese, Calcutta Trust Association, Board of Anglo-Indian Education, Synod of North India East India Charitable Trust and St Mary’s Home and Hospital.
Mum was also an accomplished piano player with a superb soprano voice. She led the choir and was chosen along with my sister Penny (mezzo soprano) to sing a duet – Ave Maria – in St Paul’s Cathedral for Queen Elizabeth 2’ visit to India in 1961. On 14 April 1982 she was presented to the Holy Father Pope John Paul, though a staunch Anglican, she was elated.
Mum worked a 12-hour day. Dad just curled up with a book and a glass of triple-x rum. He said he preferred a book to rabble rousing committees. Books were the source of all knowledge. He read everything on comparative religions. At some stage he became a Zen Buddhist. He was fascinated by the power of being able to move objects by thought. He loved philosophical discussions about god, religion and the meaning of life. I discovered why I was named Beverley. His favourite author was a Beverley Nichols. I am grateful I was already a teenager when he became besotted by the famous Third Eye series written by Lobsang Rampa!
Back to mum. When she decided to retire mum knew that my father (who had retired a lot earlier) was hankering to visit England and perhaps get back to Norwich where his forebears started. Mum did not want to leave the Pratt. It was her life. Reluctantly she resigned and moved to England where my sister Penny and I now lived. On arrival she fortuitously met up with Rev John Pothen (ex-James Church vicar and St Paul’s Cathedral) who was now looking after a large parish in north-west London. He needed a verger and offered dad the job which came with a 2-bed cottage in the grounds. Perfect. Not so. Mum had nothing to do.
Her drive and determination was in check. England meant nothing to her. Dad told her to go back and settle her affairs. So she went home. Dad was used to being on his own but we kept a close eye on him. He thrived, catching up with his sisters and a brother. But dad’s time was up. A month after his 70th birthday he died from a massive heart attack. Mother was heartbroken and blamed herself for not being with him. She flew back and we cremated dad. His ashes are buried in the church grounds. A Christmas tree was planted over his remains. When I last saw it, some 30 years ago, it was already 10 metres tall.
Mum had to return to her roots. Calcutta was her home and heritage. She was fiercely Anglo-Indian but proud of her Indian achievements. She went straight back in to the educational system but with lesser duties helping out at other Anglican Schools. She was ecstatically happy.
Almost 10 years went by. I had now moved to Sydney leaving London behind me as an experience, not a home.
One evening the phone rang. Mother called to get my permission to marry again. “Who, I cried out. Father Basil,’ was her reply. ‘Oh my god, yes. Why do you ask, you don’t need my permission?’ ‘I just wanted to know that you did not feel that I was turning my back on your father, she replied. And so another wheel turned full circle. She was happiest surrounded by teachers, pupils, parishioners, ayahs, cooks and her Anglo-Indian heritage.
Her short married life with Basil ended a few years later when he too died from a major heart attack. As a vicar’s wife, mum was looked after by the church and was given a small 2-bed annex apartment to St James Vicarage and was asked to look after Monica House. Mum was ‘in charge’ again and loving every moment. She was never lonely. Visitors and tourists abounded.
We’d talk on the phone and I realized how frail she was getting…and how forgetful. My sister would spend weeks with her visiting from England but I was derelict in my duties. Mum often said, please come and see me before I die, not after. Her words were almost prophetic.
To my relief my aunt Cynthia (mum’s younger widowed sister) was also spending more time in Calcutta and kept a close eye on mum. In October 2004 Cynthia rang me and said that mum was dying. She was 86. I knew then that the greatest loving influence in my life was calling. I arrived in Calcutta to find mum in intensive care. She had shrunk in to a tiny skin-and-bones Auschwitz inmate. I was horrified. I could not recognize her. I turned my back and sobbed uncontrollably. In that moment I wished I had never come to see her. I wanted so much to remember her as she was in her prime. I was overtaken by the urge to unhook her from all the tubes in her body and pick her up in my arms, take her to the car and drive her to my 5-star hotel in Park Street where she could enjoy some luxury and pampering.
I sat by her side and held her hand and said “Hi, it’s Bev”.
“Hello my son. So nice to see you” she whispered. “Is Vern (my wife) with you?” Yes I replied, she is outside. Mum never heard me. She lapsed in unconsciousness.
We spent the next week with her but visiting hours were strictly 30 mins each evening. No more than five minutes per person. The waiting room was always full. I learned that they were all teachers and ex-pupils who waited each evening to get a glimpse of mum. I got my five minutes but mum drifted in and out of consciousness. I was unable to hold a conversation. I was destined to never know if mum knew that I had been to see her. Cynthia assured me that she knew. I am still guilt ridden that I wasn’t there when she left us three months later. Mum died peacefully in her wheelchair outside in the vicarage gardens in the warm January sun. She had just returned from church. She slumped forward, head bowed and her indomitable spirit left her.
I know she was taken directly to heaven where she truly deserved to be.
Over 1000 people attended mum’s funeral. The entire grounds and surroundings were packed. Two bishops, two MLAs, 10 priests, dozens of teachers, ex-pupils and well wishers crowded in to St James church. The entire church was surrounded by lilacs. Every flower shop in the New Market sold out that morning. The cortege brought Lower Circular Road to a halt as it wound its way to the cemetery. The police were called and motor cycle escorts led the cortege. The children from St James and Pratt Memorial lined the footpath as a guard of honour for over three kilometers. Simultaneously the Loreto House nuns and staff held a high requiem mass for mum in Middleton Row.
At a recent World Anglo-Indian Day six champions were honoured for outstanding achievement
Msgr. Eric Barber, Phyllis Pearson-Manuel, Leslie Claudius, Neil O’Brien, Sister Marisa and Mervyn Martin.
Mum would have been beaming with pride.
By Beverley Pearson
Sydney Australia
Author: Beverley Pearson, 73 Mackenzie Bvd.,
Seven Hills NSW 2147, Australia Tel: 02 9631 9738
Beverley David Pearson was an up-country born lad who grew up in Calcutta. Schooled as a boarder in Bangalore (Bishop Cotton) and graduated with a BA Hons degree from St. Xavier’s College in Calcutta. Started life as a school teacher in St James School and moved to The Statesman as a management trainee in ‘61. Married Verna Robinson the same year and in ‘65 migrated to London. Pursued a successful career in publishing but found England cold, crowded, cramped and expensive. Migrated again… to Sydney in ‘82 where he and his family have settled very happily. Bev has now retired having after 42 years of working but occasionally continues to work part time as a Workplace Trainer and Assessor specialising in Communications and Work Safety. He’s currently an executive member (and Vice-President) of the Anglo-Indian Association of NSW Inc












